Rules You Should Live By to Have Peace

• Forgive

Forgiveness is the rule you should live by to have peace in lives. Forgive people around you and yourself no matter what they did. If your girlfriend was not there at a time you needed her, try to forgive her. If your junior brother or sister said something painful to you, forgive them. We are all human beings, and we make mistakes and failures. By forgiving others, you will be able to live good and happy life without pain and regret. You should forgive yourself for everything you have done and things you cannot change. Sometimes we cannot change the condition; all we can do is to agree with it and live a good and happy life. 

• Accept things you cannot transform 

As I mention before, we are human beings so we cannot transform everything, but it is very necessary to learn how to identify when you can transform something about the condition and when you should just agree with it. Try to agree with circumstances in your lives that have been painful, all failures you’ve made, and things that are delaying you back from moving forward. If you really cannot transform them, agree with them. This way, you’ll be able to move forward with your life and have peace in lives.  

• Relate to people around you. 

It is so easy to judge people around you, particularly when we are wrathful at someone, but if you want to have a happy life, you should understand how to relate to people around you. It is easy to say that man is rude and discourteous and is easy to shun him, but I think it is very pretentious to understand the cause why he behaves in that way. He might be kind and good, and some lives difficulty might make him unfriendly. Instead of shunning someone, try to learn and understand them and help them out. Never judge anyone.

• Let go of other people’s ideas

To have good peace in life, you’ve to let go of the past and other people’s ideas. You need also to let go of any behavior that’s holding you back from reaching your aims. When we live in the past, we cannot move forward and we cannot live a happy life. Many people, many ideas. You cannot satisfy everyone. 

• Refresh your lives

It is very pretentious to refresh your lives with new aims, dreams, and opinions once in a while. I do it 3 times in a week and it helps me to live a happy life and to live a good life with determination. Just make sure you do not see too much of aims and make sure your aims are accomplished. You need to relax on a daily basis no matter how busy you’re. The property is nothing without good health. You cannot have good peace in life when you like working every day.  

• Boost your relationships

We cannot stop boosting relationships with ourselves and people around us. To live a good life, try to come to nice terms with your family, friends, enemies and co-workers. This will give you a good sense of peace. Plus, you will stress less. Keep a positive vision about people around you and you will not waste your effort hating others.