People to Forgive Before the New Year

• Ex

Whether you have just broken up with your first love, you should try to forgive your ex. Do not well in your past relationship. Identify your mistakes, understand them and move on. Do not blame anyone for a destroyed relationship. If you forgive your ex and forget about everything he or she have done, in the new year you’ll find your sweetheart faster than you may think. Many people cannot find sweetheart because they cannot let go of their exes. Hold it in mind  

• Yourself

Last two years ago, I could not forgive myself for all the bad things I did, and 2014 wasn’t as successful and good as I wanted it to be. The problem is, we often forgive others and forget about ourselves. If this year was full of misunderstanding, forgive yourself for them. The new year is a great opportunity to start a new life. Remember, your mistakes can assist you to become a healthy person. Just make sure you prevent making the same mistakes and failures twice.       

• Neighbors

I have a difficult relationship with my neighbor. He is old and he never misses the opportunity to judge my lifestyle, my dress, and even my house. Maybe he is a bit negative, but sometimes his negative reaction assists me to improve my lives because I cannot figure out my mistakes. 

We do not choose our neighbors. Living orderly with them means having happy friends by your side. Forgive them and send a lovely note with something like, “Thank you for being such great neighbors. No matter what happened this year, let’s be good friends in the new year.”  

• Parents

You should always be grateful to your parents for your lives. They’re always ready to support, encourage and assist you no matter what. Yesterday night my friend said that his father is the worst father on the earth (this is the reason I decided to write this article) and it was the most terrible words I have ever heard.

I cannot say that my father is perfect, as no one is an expert, but I love him and I am always ready to give my life to him. Every day I pray for my parents. They do not like some part of my lifestyle and we usually have some little quarrels, but I forgive them and feel good about it. If you've got a hard relationship with your parents, try to hear or understanding them and forgive them. They like you and they want you to be glad.   

• Boss or Manager

Yep, almost all bosses have a wrong rep. But let’s image that you’re a boss and your workers are lazy – you know checking twitter or posting a new picture on Facebook is more necessary than doing extra work. What are your reactions? Will you say, “It is good, I do not mind”? No, of course.

If your manager was unbearably strict this year, it may not be because they do not love you. It may be because you did something bad. Before judging them, try to listen or understand. Anyway, forgive your manager and be grateful for the opportunity to have a job that assists you to buy some food and clothes.   

When you forgive people who harm you, you feel free, move on and accomplish the biggest life aims. Forgiveness is very important part of a good life. It can be difficult to forgive yourself and others, but you will never feel good if you feel hatred. Learn how to forgive other and improve gratitude ever day. It is the key to enormous joy.